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"Being
Myself"
Self-Statements for Social
Anxiety
By M.L.
I am just as
important as anyone else is.
I have the right to express my opinion whenever I feel
like it, no matter what.
I am calmly and confidently in control of my own life.
I accept and feel good about myself.
I have a nice personality with many attractive
qualities.
More importantly, I am caring and sensitive to the
feelings of others.
When I speak my mind, and act as I am, the response I
receive is often very positive.
I can carry on a conversation just as well as
anyone else, so why should I be inhibited when I have many
things to say?
This inhibition is my ANTs voice lying to me, and
is nothing more than a lie. I just need to be myself,
and say what I have to say, because I can’t go wrong when
I do this.
I don't need to feel like I have to be
humorous or entertain others.
I just need to loosen up and be myself. I
can always be as serious as I want, and I can always be as
ridiculous as I want. It doesn’t really matter, just
as long as I’m being me.
When a conversation is taking place and I have
something to say, I will not think about it. I’ll just
say it. I am not intruding or being rude. Chances are
people will like what I have to say, and if they don’t, who
really cares? In the grand scheme of things, how
important is one tiny conversation anyway?
There is no "certain way" to act or
be. Whatever I do or say is OK.
I don’t care if others disapprove. I choose to
surround myself with people who I like and enjoy, and who
share the same interests as I do. I don’t have to like
everyone, and they don’t have to like me. This is
perfectly normal.
Only when I stop allowing the thinking of
others to affect the way I act, can I become myself and be
happy.
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